Tim reminded me again today to take it as it comes and grow from it..... Thank you Tim! I needed that. :) Tim is now crossing the ocean .... flying to Jeddah. He might be able to get on the internet while he is in the air or not... He will be into Jeddah on Sunday. I was unable to talk to him this afternoon...just could not get a good connection... but I will get to talk to him soon enough. He flew to Boston with an interesting seat mate from Russia. He messaged that he much enjoyed his visit with this professor from Russia. He then was able to relax in the airport and enjoy dinner and an hour of paid internet at JFK. He has been such a strong and supportive role model for me in all this... THANKS! :)